Unsolicited advice to Mike Chang of Glee even though he’s just a TV character and things need to be stupid and dramatic in TV-land.
You are a football-playing, pop-song warbling A+sian with abs of steel and a great sense of rhythm from small town Ohio. This rare combination will guarantee that you will get into any freaking college you apply to, especially if you don’t need financial aid, as your Chinese parents began saving for your university education when you were still in utero. It’s not dance school OR college, you can do both! It’s called a liberal arts education! Yale is an Ivy League university with a fantastic fine arts program. Make that your first choice; your parents will be overjoyed as well.
WIN-WIN SITUATION.